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Realism

English book, p. 23

By Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

Realism will only continue the conflict. On the other hand, if you accept what is possible, you will gain two benefits at once: resolving the conflict quickly and creating opportunities for constructive action. The same principle applies to all personal disputes. In the course of life, everyone faces situations of disagreement and conflict—sometimes over money and sometimes for other reasons. A person who debates right and wrong in such situations is undoubtedly unwise. Instead, a wise person recognizes the practical demands and, considering them, agrees to what is possible. This is the person who will succeed in this world. Whenever conflicts occur in social life, people focus solely on what they believe is just or their right, then they fight with the other side to attain that right. These conflicts often last for years without a positive outcome. An alternative approach in such situations is to consider the time and energy spent fighting for an assumed right and instead use that energy for positive development. Confrontation is always pursued in the name of securing rights. However, the tangible outcome of confrontation is often the loss of valuable opportunities. In this world, wisdom lies in adopting a practical approach in every situation. An individual can pursue ideals in their personal life, but when it comes to social matters, they must always be pragmatic.

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