The Upbringing of Children

PARENTING: AN ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE families in the present era. Nowadays, individuals work hard to earn money and then spend a significant portion of their earnings on their children in the name of love. However, this is not genuine love; it is mere indulgence that profoundly impacts the spoiling of their children. A child’s first ten years is the “formative period” in psychological terms. This phase holds immense importance as the personality that takes shape during this time has a lasting impact throughout one’s life. Unfortunately, in today’s world, parents often unknowingly harm their children disguised as love during this formative period. Based on my experience, the core issue lies in the lack of seriousness among present-day parents regarding their children’s upbringing. Their efforts tend to be superficial, limited to providing Islamic attire such as round caps for boys and scarves for girls. They believe that this alone constitutes a complete Islamic upbringing. However, I offer practical advice for those genuinely concerned about their children’s upbringing. Firstly, it is crucial to refrain from pampering children in the name of love, just as one would abstain from