Approach to Upbringing of Children

APPROACH TO UPBRINGING OF CHILDREN When practical situations arise within the home, offering the children a choice between the right and wrong paths ensures their proper upbringing. O nce, a gentleman was severely scolded by his neighbour. But he quietly returned home without responding to the person who scolded him. Upon learning about the incident, his son became furious. He exclaimed, “How dare that person humiliate my father? I will teach him a lesson so he never dares to show such audacity again.” The father managed to calm his son’s anger and said, “After all, he only used some words. He did not physically harm me. So, what is our loss in this? Why should we stoop to his level if he has an abusive tongue? Let’s forget about him and focus on our work.” What could have become a source of grief and a desire for revenge in normal circumstances became an opportunity for patience and tolerance. After a few days, the neighbour himself felt ashamed. He approached them, apologized for his insolence, and behaved well.