The Loss of Pampering

PARENTING: AN ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE The remembrance of God and engagement in worship should become integral components of their personality. They should adhere to prayers and fasting. The desire for charity and good deeds should be instilled in them, and they should develop a passion for the daily study of the Quran and Hadith. Observing them, everyone should recognize them as pious children. Character development should be an ongoing process. If the child makes a mistake, he should be corrected. If siblings have a dispute, they should be immediately taught to understand and resolve it. If the child lies, uses abusive language or takes something belonging to someone else, it should be addressed firmly. All of this should begin in childhood so that the child becomes accustomed to specific values in life. The same approach should be applied to discipline. The child should be taught to respect time, keep things in their proper place and eat and drink at fixed times. If they litter or throw paper on the road, they should be immediately asked to pick it up. Noise should be discouraged, and they should be taught to avoid anything that causes discomfort to others. Parents must align their lifestyle accordingly to ensure a child’s proper upbringing. Merely instructing the child not to lie while making excuses themselves renders the lesson on honesty meaningless. Similarly,