In the Prophet’s Company

TRUE COMPANIONSHIP human being is naturally equipped with two types of inner traits: the commanding self (nafs al-ammarah) and the reproaching self (nafs al-lawwamah). The commanding self is linked to Satan, while the reproaching self is linked to the angel. If a man abuses you and you stay silent, then the accusing self within the abuser awakens and internally rebukes him. It’s as if an angel responds on your behalf. Conversely, if you reply with harshness to harsh words, the commanding self of the other person is triggered. This person is falling under Satan’s influence. Through this instruction, the Prophet made the Companions aware of a profound truth. He instilled in them such intellectual enlightenment that it became the key to their success in every matter—whether personal or collective. Through this guidance, the Prophet provided the believers with a deep insight. He explained that within every person, there are two hidden personalities: • One, the enemy personality, and • The other, the friendly personality. It is within your power to choose whether the other person becomes your friend or your enemy. If you activate his commanding side (ego), you will encounter his enemy personality. If you activate his reproaching side (conscience), you will see his friendly personality.