The Courage to Face Challenges

INSIGHTS OF THE WISE Every person has a conscience inside. That conscience is essentially your representative within others. Use this natural representative, and you’ll have no reason to complain about anyone. C.F. Dole (Charles Fletcher Dole, 1845–1927) once said: “Goodwill is the mightiest force in the universe.” This is not just the saying of one person—it is a fundamental truth about human nature. The Creator has made people in such a way that if they are treated badly, they flare up in anger; but if treated kindly, they are moved to gratitude and become more gentle toward the one who showed kindness. This universal natural principle makes no exceptions for anyone—not even for friends or enemies. Speak harshly to a friend, insult him, or hurt him, and you’ll see how quickly he forgets the friendship. A spirit of retaliation will arise within him. The same person who once praised you will now be ready to attack you with thorns and fire. On the other hand, speak softly to someone you see as an enemy. Address one of their needs, help them during a tough time—even something as simple as offering a glass of cold water when they’re thirsty—and their attitude will shift. The person who seemed your enemy can become your friend and supporter. By placing this trait in human nature, God has given us a powerful support. This quality has equipped even the weakest person with the strongest weapon of influence.