An Example of Noble Character
English book, p. 298
By Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
her scope of responsibilities and the status she has been granted in the framework of life as ordained by the Creator. In simple terms, the man is responsible for managing external affairs, and the woman is the leader of the household. According to this principled division, the man’s duty is to handle matters outside the home, and the woman’s duty is to organize and manage affairs within the home. However, to ensure this division of roles works harmoniously, it is necessary that both recognize each other’s sensitivities and cooperate fully with one another. For example, if the man earns a fixed monthly income, and the woman plans household expenses beyond that limit, the smooth running of the household becomes impossible. Similarly, if the woman develops rivalry with the man’s close relatives, or considers those as enemies whom the man wishes to treat well, or seeks to sever ties that the man wishes to maintain for social reasons, then these actions amount to disrupting the natural order. Whenever a woman behaves in this manner, she is not just opposing a man—she is, in effect, opposing the very system of nature. It is necessary for a woman to be guided not merely by her emotions, but to keep the Creator’s design in view. She must acknowledge that she is one half of humanity—not its entirety. She must assess her personal feelings against the order of nature and, where there is conflict, must willingly suppress her emotions and embrace the natural order with acceptance.

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