An Example of Noble Character
English book, p. 301
By Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
WOMEN OF PARADISE the question arises: how was she able to speak with such confidence at such a delicate moment? The key reason was that she herself was not directly affected by the overwhelming experience. In life, we frequently encounter intense situations in which the person at the center of the issue is unable to form an objective opinion. At such times, it is essential to have an advisor who is not personally involved in the matter so they can offer insight with an unaffected mind. Lady Khadijah’s response is a prime example of this. Islam established a principle of division of responsibilities between men and women. One of the many benefits of this division is precisely this: the woman is engaged in her domain and the man in his. As a result, both remain relatively uninvolved in the other’s domain, allowing each to view the other’s matters with a detached and unbiased perspective—and thus, provide trustworthy advice. Through this division of roles, both man and woman gain a companion who can also serve as their most sincere and effective counselor. 2. When the Prophet concluded the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah with the Quraysh of Makkah, it caused deep unrest among the Companions. On the surface, the treaty seemed like a compromise, and several of its clauses clearly appeared to favour the opposition. The grief and frustration among the Companions was so intense that after the treaty was finalized, when the Prophet instructed them to sacrifice the

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