When You Change Yourself, You Change Everything

WHEN YOU CHANGE YOURSELF, YOU CHANGE EVERYTHING “I don’t want to see your face,” said the person. “Close your eyes, and you won’t see my face,” came the reply. “I don’t want to hear your voice,” the person added. “Close your ears, and you won’t hear my voice,” was the answer. This simple exchange between two characters in the Ramayana holds a deep truth about life: The problem a person tries to solve by chasing others can often be solved more effectively by correcting oneself. It often happens that when someone has a complaint, they immediately act against the person they blame. But instead of solving the issue, this creates even more problems. The wiser, more effective solution is to shift your focus. Rather than wasting time in conflict, use that time to engage in meaningful work.