WOMEN IN ISLAM

MARRIAGE IN ISLAM The positive aspect of egoism in man is that it is one of the driving forces in working steadfastly for a cause. A man bereft of this quality will be weak, lacking in willpower, and fail to accomplish any task requiring determination and perseverance. However, the negative aspect is that it will make him arrogant. Therefore, one must be very careful and not allow one’s ego to sway one towards the negative side, as this would be counterproductive. Similarly, a woman tends to be on the emotional side. This trait has its positive as well as negative aspects. The positive aspect is that she is more sensitive and, therefore, more gentle and compassionate, which is, without doubt, a positive quality. However, the negative aspect is that it can give her an obstinate personality, thus making her stubborn even when a flexible approach is necessary. If a woman allows this aspect of her nature to go unchecked, it will be detrimental to the wholesome development of her personality. A man and a woman should understand the natural traits they are born with. They must consciously strive to use their positive aspects and sedulously refrain from taking any negative course. The secret of success in both men and women lies in this self-control. COMPANIONSHIP OF HUSBAND AND WIFE The 30th chapter of the Quran says, “He created for you from among yourselves spouses so that you may find repose in them.” (30:21)