WOMEN IN ISLAM

between them. Both must undertake introspection to diagnose and correct their weaknesses individually to acquire mutual trust. Once both the husband and the wife take such corrective measures, they will be able to live their lives in a practical manner. The psychological barrier between them will be removed, and they will be able to build mutual trust, enabling them to lead a positive and successful married life. QAWWAMIAT OR ‘BOSSISM’ In the 4th chapter, the Quran states that men are women’s protectors (Qawwam). (4:34) The word used by the Quran is ‘Qawwam,’ and it has the same connotation as the word ‘boss’ used today. The word ‘boss’ seemingly appears to convey that one is the ruler, and the other is ruled. But Qawwam has a different meaning. Qawwam refers to administration rather than ‘ruling’ or being ‘superior’ to a woman. Today, the concept of ‘boss’ or ‘bossism’ is widely known. We can understand the concept of Qawwamiat with this example. Qawwamiat means that a man is the head of the family, just as there is a head in an institution or a company. This ‘head’ or ‘boss’ runs the company’s administration, but this does not mean he ‘rules’ it. The common adage goes, “The Boss is always right.” This does not mean that the Boss is superior, but that for an organization to function