THE WORD OF GOD

What is the cause of misunderstanding in social life? Misunderstanding is a common phenomenon of social life. People tend to believe everything that is reported to them without scrutiny. It is a common experience that those who report do it selectively or in a partial manner. This creates misunderstanding. What is the remedy to avoid misunderstanding? According to the teachings of the Quran the principle to be followed is that if you are going to form a positive opinion about a person, then scrutiny is not necessary. But, when you feel that you are forming a negative opinion about a person then you have to investigate the matter with utmost seriousness before forming the opinion. In a world full of conflict and differences there is a very important question: from where to begin? The answer is to accept the status quo in controversial matters and divert your activities to the non-confrontational field. The confrontational approach involves a very serious loss, that is, waste of time and energy, while the non-confrontational method makes it possible to devote all your time and energy towards achieving your goal. Which is the best policy to follow in this world of competition and challenge? The policy of wait and see is the best policy in this world, and it is this policy that is called patience. Impatience means not waiting but jumping into the situation without thinking about the consequences. Patience means wisdom-based thinking. What do you mean by wisdom and practicality? Practical wisdom means : opting for the less than ideal when the ideal is not achievable. It is very important for every individual, for controversy is a part of life. In the midst of controversy, everyone tries to produce an ideal solution. But the fact is that, in most cases, the ideal cannot be achieved. The best formula, therefore, is for everyone to opt for the possible. One should not go after what is clearly impossible. This is the meaning of practical wisdom. o