INHERITANCE
Spirit of Islam, Jan-Feb 2025, p. 22
By Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan is named as the default author of the periodical; a piece that carries another writer’s byline is credited to that writer.
A djustment is the key to a successful married life. But what kind of adjustment? It’s not just about making changes for the sake of it. It’s about adjusting for a higher purpose—to create a harmonious environment where both partners can fulfil the true essence of married life. Married life isn’t just about cohabitation; it’s about co-sharing. Each partner brings something unique to the relationship, and they both need to share that with each other. Everyone has different qualities, and each partner needs a share from their spouse to help them develop their personalities fully. In a marriage, both partners are givers and takers simultaneously, so they need favourable conditions to benefit from each other. Life is like a cogwheel. If one partner has one cog, the other partner has the other cog, and they both need to connect so that they can work together effectively. There are many marriages where both partners were aware of this and made adjustments to their relationship. But they were also conscious that their adjustments were not just about making things easier; they were about sharing and growing together. As a result, their marriages were successful. One crucial aspect of marriage is what is called the “intellectual partnership.” Every day, we face challenges, encounter new issues, and make decisions. We also want to explore new ideas and perspectives. This is important for both men and women. Everyone needs an intellectual partner with whom they can engage in meaningful conversations, exchange ideas, and discover better solutions. The best intellectual partner is your spouse. When a man is born, he’s like raw iron ore. Nature has shaped him like an ore, but he must develop himself independently. Just as nature ADJUSTMENT IN MARRIED LIFE To develop one’s personality, the most important thing is to broaden one’s mind by awakening their consciousness. Three key elements are needed to achieve this: study, observation, and intellectual exchange with others. For Greater Partnership

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