An Example of Noble Character

WOMEN OF PARADISE most beautiful flower. She is the light of the household— indeed, the brightest light. But a woman can fulfill this natural role only when she is thoughtful and aware—when she understands not only her own emotions but also those of others. And when she is firmly committed to fulfilling the human role entrusted to her by the Creator, even if it demands sacrifice, patience, and endurance. ABUNDANT GOOD In the Quran, there is a passage in which men are warned not to exploit a woman’s weakness, and to treat her unjustly. After outlining the relevant guidelines, the Quran presents a fundamental and comprehensive teaching: “Live with them in accordance with what is fair and kind; if you dislike them, it may be that you dislike something which God might make a source of abundant good.” (4:19) While the immediate address is to men, in broader application, this guidance is equally relevant to both men and women. Just as it is necessary for men to maintain the marital relationship with grace, it is equally necessary for women. If a man feels that his wife has a physical or temperamental shortcoming, he should not become disheartened by it. Rather, he should exercise patience and give her the opportunity to bring forth the other qualities God has given her—qualities that can contribute positively to the