English book · THE RELIGION OF HUMANITY: Islam’s Ethical and Spiritual Outlook

An Example of Noble Character

English book, p. 306

By Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

well-being of the household. He should rise above his initial dislike and make an effort to nurture the relationship. The same applies to women. A woman may realize after marriage that her husband has a particular weakness, and she may feel that she made an unfortunate choice. But this view is not correct. One must recognize that in this world, it is not possible for a woman to find a man who is perfect in every respect from her perspective. Therefore, women too should adopt the principle of compromise. When she does, she will discover that while her husband may lack in one area, he possesses strengths in others that can more than make up for it. Responding in this way is not simply about adjusting to another person; it is about aligning oneself with the natural order. When the issue is not just about dealing with an individual but about harmonizing with nature itself, then there really is no alternative. In truth, the development and stability of any family—or even society—rests on the ability of its members to overlook each other’s shortcomings and allow their strengths to flourish. Those who show this patience in the present world for the sake of God are the ones who will be granted entry into the gardens of the Hereafter. Although this principle appears in the context of marital relationships in this chapter of the Quran, it carries a broader message. It is a common feature of the Quran to present universal guidance within the framework of specific instructions.

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