An Example of Noble Character

WOMEN OF PARADISE Although this hadith speaks about a woman, it applies equally to men. It reflects a natural principle relevant to both. A man should treat a woman according to this guidance, and similarly, a woman should treat her husband by the same rule. Likewise, while the advice is directed at a believing individual, it is a piece of wisdom that can benefit anyone. It is part of the natural order that no man or woman possesses every quality. In this world, no one is completely lacking in ability, and no one is entirely perfect. If someone has one strength, they are likely missing another. In such a case, if a person longs for something that does not exist in the natural order, that longing becomes meaningless— because they are seeking what is simply not attainable in this world. If a man finds his wife lacking in outward attractiveness, he should not resent her, for she may possess strong practical qualities. If a woman tends to become angry quickly, that should not be a reason for alarm. Often, those with short tempers are also people of principle, sincerity, and honesty. Rather than becoming disheartened, one should look at their spouse with appreciation. You may discover that your partner possesses traits more valuable than those you initially wished for. You might have been seeking superficial qualities, while God has granted you deeper, more meaningful ones—ones that contribute to building a meaningful life and a stable home.