An Example of Noble Character

For example, a man may wish his wife were more outwardly charming, but instead, God gave him a wife with inward beauty—and the latter is unquestionably more important. The same applies in reverse. A woman may have wished for a wealthy husband, but if fate did not provide her with one, she need not be disappointed. A man without great wealth may instead possess seriousness, humility, compassion, and a strong work ethic. These qualities are often more valuable than wealth itself. Similarly, if a woman’s husband does not come from a prestigious lineage, though she had hoped for that, it would be a mistake to think less of him. Often, those with distinguished lineage can carry a sense of superiority that results in poor character, while someone who lacks such pride tends to be more grounded, conscientious, and respectful. In this world, no good thing is without flaws, and no ordinary thing is without some merit. Therefore, men and women alike should learn to appreciate the value in what they already have, rather than turning away from it in search of something else. This advice from the Prophet of Islam shows that one should never fall into despair, for in every seemingly discouraging event, God has hidden a glimpse of hope.