English book · THE RELIGION OF HUMANITY: Islam’s Ethical and Spiritual Outlook

An Example of Noble Character

English book, p. 330

By Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

who lived peacefully in her own home may now feel overwhelmed in her new home. This is the real test of a woman’s character: that she maintains the same spirit in her in-laws’ home as she did in her parental home. Just as she kept good relations with her family despite occasional grievances, she should do the same with her new family. The woman who, through her good character, turns her husband’s home into a model of peace and love is the one truly deserving of Paradise in the Hereafter. Often, when a person—man or woman—fails their test in life, it is because they become entangled in psychological complexities with those closest to them. At times, these inner struggles overpower them to such an extent that they cannot rise above them. Success lies in being aware of this emotional vulnerability and maintaining one’s sense of duty despite it. A woman has to interact with many people in her environment—both men and women. In this process, she may sometimes become angry at someone’s words, feel insulted by someone’s remarks, or feel jealousy and resentment toward another’s success. She may begin to suspect that certain individuals are hindering her progress. At times, excessive attachment and partiality toward her own children can push her toward irrational decisions. These emotional patterns can be damaging to both personal well-being and one’s ability to lead a balanced, fulfilling life. It is important to rise above such feelings and move

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