An Example of Noble Character

WOMEN OF PARADISE forward. Failing to do so may prevent a person from living up to the positive role life has made possible for them. History offers many examples of women who made lasting contributions—both within their families and in the wider world. These were individuals of strong character who succeeded in overcoming emotional and psychological barriers. This principle is not limited to women. It applies equally to men. Men, too, should treat their partners the way they would like to be treated. This idea is echoed in a wellknown saying: “None of you truly believes until he wishes for others what he wishes for himself.” (Musnad Ahmad, Hadith No. 13875) Becoming caught up in grievances only hinders your path to growth. But ignoring complaints and treating others well leads to the highest ranks of success. MISUNDERSTANDING In Sahih Muslim, the second most authentic collection of hadith compiled by Muslim ibn al-Hajjaj (d. 875), a significant incident is narrated. Ibn Abi Mulaykah reports that Aisha, the wife of the Prophet of Islam, once said: “One night I could not find the Prophet by my side. I assumed he had gone to one of his other wives, so I went looking for him. When I returned, I found him in bowing or prostration, saying: ‘Glory be to You, O God, and all praise is