Control Over Speech

Control Over Speech Thomas Fuller (1608–1661), an English writer, once said: “Birds are caught by their feet, and men by their tongues.” This reflects a deep truth—many of life’s problems arise from the careless use of speech. Reckless words can create endless difficulties, both within the home and outside it. If a person learns to control their tongue—or at the very least, remain silent in delicate situations—they can avoid many unpleasant outcomes. All reformers and thinkers have emphasised the importance of speaking with care. Consider the following reflections: • “You can more easily conquer harsh words with gentle ones.”—Gautama Buddha • “The wound of a sword is not as deep as the wound of the tongue.”—Hindi Proverb • “The one who fears God finds their tongue subdued.”—Fudayl ibn ‘Iyad • “We are given speech to exchange pleasant words— not to hurt one another.”—Gautama Buddha • “A fool’s heart is in his mouth, while a wise man’s tongue is in his heart.”— Shakespeare • “An idle mind and a restless tongue are close companions.”—Ovid • “A slip of the foot can be recovered from—but a slip of the tongue may not be.”— Benjamin Franklin