Control Over Speech

• “A fool is ruled by his tongue; a wise man rules his tongue.”—Arabic Proverb • “Even if your enemy says something good, do not hesitate to accept it.”—Swami Shabdanand • “One who speaks unpleasantly should be prepared to hear unpleasant things.”— Arabic Saying • “Think deeply before you speak—and you will never regret your words.”—Plato A person who speaks kindly will be liked—even without an attractive appearance. The power of sweet and gentle speech is a rare gift. No amount of knowledge or wealth can substitute for it. Imagine two mute individuals meeting—how empty that interaction seems. But when two speaking people meet, their words can create a rich and meaningful connection. In such moments, speech becomes the bridge between hearts. There is no sight more beautiful than two people conversing sincerely and sweetly. On the other hand, when two people begin speaking harshly, the scene becomes so unpleasant that even the speakers themselves would feel ashamed if they saw a recording of it. The foolish think that staying quiet in the face of insult makes one appear weak. But in truth, when someone controls themselves after hearing a harsh word and responds with calmness, they demonstrate immense strength. This act of self-restraint often humbles the aggressor. Kind and The Principle of Patience